If your response on hearing about the progress someone has made is to raise issues to fade their shine and critique their move, if on hearing about a stumbling block on the path of another, a tinge of pleasantness arises in your heart, you have just discovered what is blocking your own progress.
It is lies right in your heart and not on the outside in the challenging environment.
It’s called self sabotage. Don’t ignore nor explain it away but kill it by choosing to act otherwise and then in your quiet time confess your love for those around you and your desire to see them make progress.
